busymom4_2003 asked:
My husband and I have been together for 6 1/2 years, married for 3yrs. We just celebrated our 3rd anniversary. He has a friend he plays poker with online. At first I didnt think much of it. But he started spending more time with her than he does with me and the kids. I tried to say something but he said I was being rediculous. Well, they decided to set up messenger so they could chat easier. I know how to read the message archive, he doesn’t. Last night I noticed he said he was going to give her his cell number and wanted her to call him at work. I’m not allowed to call him at work unless it’s an emergency. I read the archive today because of this. He asked for a pic of her, told her she was beautiful. He said if he had the money he’d be on a bus now. They said they couldn’t wait for the time they could meet in person. I’ve noticed they are making jokes about me and things like that. Obviously they’ve said more, but I don’t have room here to list it all. What do I do?
When I noticed last night that he was going to give her his number I said something to him. That was before I read the archive. She lives in a different state, but it’s the one we are from, so it’s not like he can’t find her. All he said was if I wasn’t reading his messages, I wouldn’t know. He said they were just friends. I asked how far does it go before it stops? Now that I’ve read their messages I think it is more than just friends. Anybody want to know more, I’ll send you the messages they wrote and you can tell me what you think. Our anniversary was Wendsday and the chat I read was from mostly this weekend.
Also, I am a stay at home mom with our 4 children, 3 mine, 1 together. He works and controls the finances. I have to ask just to buy something like ice cream. How am I supposed to go out and have fun on my own or leave him?
Travis
My husband and I have been together for 6 1/2 years, married for 3yrs. We just celebrated our 3rd anniversary. He has a friend he plays poker with online. At first I didnt think much of it. But he started spending more time with her than he does with me and the kids. I tried to say something but he said I was being rediculous. Well, they decided to set up messenger so they could chat easier. I know how to read the message archive, he doesn’t. Last night I noticed he said he was going to give her his cell number and wanted her to call him at work. I’m not allowed to call him at work unless it’s an emergency. I read the archive today because of this. He asked for a pic of her, told her she was beautiful. He said if he had the money he’d be on a bus now. They said they couldn’t wait for the time they could meet in person. I’ve noticed they are making jokes about me and things like that. Obviously they’ve said more, but I don’t have room here to list it all. What do I do?
When I noticed last night that he was going to give her his number I said something to him. That was before I read the archive. She lives in a different state, but it’s the one we are from, so it’s not like he can’t find her. All he said was if I wasn’t reading his messages, I wouldn’t know. He said they were just friends. I asked how far does it go before it stops? Now that I’ve read their messages I think it is more than just friends. Anybody want to know more, I’ll send you the messages they wrote and you can tell me what you think. Our anniversary was Wendsday and the chat I read was from mostly this weekend.
Also, I am a stay at home mom with our 4 children, 3 mine, 1 together. He works and controls the finances. I have to ask just to buy something like ice cream. How am I supposed to go out and have fun on my own or leave him?
Travis
