I posted on here today about my boyfriend flirting with other women on myspace. (http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=AhYYs9pki1OUQPJeyuwIc7Tsy6IX;_ylv=3?qid=20080817150114AARrVwS)
I noticed today that this 15 year old girl has been blowing up his comments the past few days. They are kind of flirty in content, a lot of “hehe” and dumb stuff like that.
However today I noticed that she had commented on his daughters photos, talking about how beautiful she was. Then she commented on another one of his photos saying that “you have kind eyes.” I also noticed just now that when I walked into the other room where his computer is, he had his myspace inbox open in the background while he was playing some online poker, and she was online as well.
The thing that bothers me is that he’s 25 years old, what need does he have in talking to a 15 year old?
Should I be worried or am I just paraniod about the other stuff I read on his myspace?
Barbara
Tags: Flirty, Myspace, Question Index
It sounds to me like you’re asking a question that deep down inside, you already know the answer to. There is NO REASON for a 25 year old to be friends with a 15 year old of the opposite *** unless they are related. So, unless she is a blood relative, your boyfriend is acting very inappropriately. However, she could just have a crush on him and he’s trying to let her off easy. I would ask him who she is. If he can’t answer or takes a minute or two to answer, then you know what’s up. Hope that helps…
maybe she needs a “father” figure. maybe she just needs a friend. as long as they are not chatting about *** then it’s ok. sometimes people just need a stranger’s opinion on something. kinda like yahoo answers.
You should be patient. I think that the 15-years old girl should be finding a fatherly figure. Anyways. making friends is good.
i would be a little concerned. and would confront him about it. i know it might be hard but you should =] good luck. can someone help me with mine?
That is totally inappropriate, especially for a 25 year old, and no, you are not paranoid. I think you should move on and find someone who loves you and is devoted to you and not addicted to a computer. This is how he will be if you get married, because you can’t change a person. You deserve someone so much better, and one that respects you. I think you know all this, but needed to hear it from someone else. It’s time to move on to a mature man.
if you’re getting uncomfortable or annoyed that your 25-yr old bf is getting a little too close to a 15-yr old girl, talk to him. tell him how you feel. to your bf, it might be nothing but to the girl, she might think otherwise, she may be infatuated to your bf and do something stupid. if he really thinks it’s getting into you, he’ll stop.
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