*Triple M*(Queen of the Ring) asked:
I do everything for my husband, I dressed up in a Nurse outfit, Dominatrix outfit, oriental outfit, I do what I know he desires. As of late, this other woman named “Lady Luck” has been getting in the way. My husband plays online every night, I sit with him for three to four hours a night which is three to four times a week. Last night was the second night in a row I was promised that we would watch a movie together, but of course, I guess lady luck looked sexier to him then I did. We went to bed at one in the morning. And finally I was in his arms, we cuddled and closed our eyes for about five minutes, and our two year old came running in and I asked my husband to put him back in his room and he refused. I needed that time with him because its so consumed by work and poker. These are things that I need, and I have tried to explain this to him. The other night we were having *** and our son started crying and my husband said “Let me hurry up and finish so we can bring him in here” That really hurt my feelings but I never said anything. I LOVE having *** with my husband, I would do it morning noon and night with him if time allowed. Am I over reacting about this whole poker thing? It’s every night. PLEASE someone help! Any replies are greatly appreciated!
oh about the other nights he is at work, i am not in anyway being selffish.
Jeanette
I do everything for my husband, I dressed up in a Nurse outfit, Dominatrix outfit, oriental outfit, I do what I know he desires. As of late, this other woman named “Lady Luck” has been getting in the way. My husband plays online every night, I sit with him for three to four hours a night which is three to four times a week. Last night was the second night in a row I was promised that we would watch a movie together, but of course, I guess lady luck looked sexier to him then I did. We went to bed at one in the morning. And finally I was in his arms, we cuddled and closed our eyes for about five minutes, and our two year old came running in and I asked my husband to put him back in his room and he refused. I needed that time with him because its so consumed by work and poker. These are things that I need, and I have tried to explain this to him. The other night we were having *** and our son started crying and my husband said “Let me hurry up and finish so we can bring him in here” That really hurt my feelings but I never said anything. I LOVE having *** with my husband, I would do it morning noon and night with him if time allowed. Am I over reacting about this whole poker thing? It’s every night. PLEASE someone help! Any replies are greatly appreciated!
oh about the other nights he is at work, i am not in anyway being selffish.
Jeanette
Poker wouldn’t exist in my world if that is you in the picture.
is this not normal guy behavior???
poker is for after you poke her.
how he could put poker in front of you in outfits is a mystery.
maybe the goodie train shouldn’t pull in to ****** town for a few days - see if that gets his attention.
Do you think there could be an underlying problem to all of this? Maybe theres something going on in his mind maybe sounds almost as if hes trying to avoid it someway?
You sound like an amazing woman who sets out to make your man happy but maybe you need to do something a little different?
Why dont you not have *** for a week (Yes! I know a little difficult at times!) but then arrange a babysitter and take him out somewhere romantic and get a hotel for a night. However try having candles, music but not dressing up have about the real you and him. How about trying it outside in a secluded area?
I once did my boyfriend a ‘midnight picnic’ where we went to a park with candles and music ate a little chinese and yes continued you from there!
Try talking to your partner find out what hes feeling maybe he wants to try something different or is distracted by something eles but i do not believe your husband is more concerned on poker than yourself, If talking does not work then I would advise having a non interuppted night were you two can enjoy eachother and make it a night to remeber!!
Wish you all the best!
Number one stop doing those things for him. He must not appreciate it at all. Next time he goes to play poker I wouldn’t even stay in the same room. He should notice that you are not there. If he doesn’t then its time to unplug the computer and have a serious talk with him. The most important things in his life should be you and your son. Unless he is trying to become a pro poker player then there is no reason for 4 hours a night.
Hes crazy look at you.
thats tough if u already fulfill all his fanasies. y dont u guys play strip poker?????? get a lil bit of both worlds u kno???????????
I think you are overreacting and a bit selfish when it comes to your child. Find another time for *** if you know it can’t be at night. Your husband is obviously putting your son before you as he should. If he is playing poker three to four times a week that still leaves three to four nights that you could have him.
No he has a problem if he wants poker over you. It might be because he knows he can have you anytime and by the sound of it as long as he gets what he wants he is fine. You need to explain that you also have needs and one of those is fun and romance in your love making.
at one time I was caught up in on line poker, I think after losing enough times ( he will also) I got over it-. it is a addiction ,hopefully he will see it befor it is too late
Im married but ***. I dearly love my wife, and love having *** with her, but the guys I play poker with are hot!
But seriously, if either of you have one or two nights a week with scheduled activities (poker, darts, bowling, etc.), he isn’t choosing those activities ‘over’ you. Life is not all lived in the bedroom (sometimes I wish it could be), and he can’t have *** with you 24/7 no matter what you do. Be happy he has other interests.
something is not right i have a boyfriend that douse the same thing. my boyfriend lives with me and when we cuddle it is only for 5 or 10 min. and i have been with him for like 5 years. yes i have told him that i need more time and it’s like I’ve never said any thing to him he is all was to Bessie he says. so how i deal with it is to try not to touch him or kiss him and see how long it take him to think about me and some days he don’t even tuch me and it herts. so when he wont’s to cuddle say not right now im bissie.
That boy is obviously been taken over by aliens!
some brain ******* parasite got into his head and has completely taken over!!!
I think you should call the men in black and have him ZAPPED!
ask if they can use the flashy thing on you and your choice of hot guys to make you both think your happily married and very much in heat!
Sorry Hon but you know how those pesky aliens are… watch out for the poker buddies…most likely their planing to take over the world and might not like being exposed…
seriously he’s got a real problem and maybe you should talk to him about getting help… its called a gambling addiction BTW
I was in the same situation as your husband a few years ago. I was kind of addicted to an online game and my wife complained about lacking quality time and *** and she too tried to lure me to bed.
What I had in mind was that since I had finished my job/work, I would like to reward myself. That’s right, the *** is not much appealing at that time; except after I was tired of sitting in front of the computer.
So, just make sure that the poker doesn’t ruin his job/career. Anything else, like *** or less help in the house, I think you should try to deal with it. I don’t think it would take him too long with this addiction. I was bored after a few months and quit.
I felt okay when my wife kept reminding me that she needs more of my time; but she did not get angry or mad.
Just make sure not to get into a fight over this b/c it only gets worse.
After all, it is better that he is playing in the house/online rather than he is being somewhere else.
Also, try to initiate some outdoor activities especially over the weekend.
Tell him how you feel about the *** comment. You aren’t having *** just so he can “finish up”, you want to have fun with him too. You really need to tell him about this. Usually men want to please their wives and he’s obviously not doing that. You need to keep talking to him. Tell him that you feel neglected and that he loves poker more than you. Ask him why he prefers poker over you. If he says he doesn’t then point to the fact that he’s constantly choosing poker over you. Also, I’d stop hanging around him while he’s playing poker. You’re just making it seem like it’s okay for him to do that and he may think it counts as quality time with you.
I don’t know where you live but if it is in the U.S. you should get use to being without him.Online gambling is illegal and they are putting people in prison for it all over Texas.So you may get to wear the **** outfits to visit him in prison.
The other part I wouldn’t put anything ahead of my wife.I guess that’s why I don’t have one.
with a woman like you in the picture who the heck wants poker !!!! some guys are just retarded …just plain retarded