My boyfriend and I have been together for almost 3.5 years. He has been the best boyfriend I’ve ever had and he is also my best friend. We moved in together in last June. It seems that since then we have been growing apart.
It’s like we have very little time together and when we are at home together he is on the couch in the living room watching TV or playing poker and I am at my computer desk adjacent to the living room. I have noticed that we are talking less and less and arguing more and more.
I also get upset when I am doing the majority of things around the house while also trying to get my homework done. It’s like pulling teeth to get him to do household chores. He is also bad about letting me know when he will be home late or when plans change. I am very organized and ambitious and it seems that he is very laid back. I appreciate this quality in him adn feel liked it balances me but sometimes it also leads to problems when things don’t get done.
I love this man dearly and dont want to lose him. I’m 24 and have given him most of the last 4 years of my life. I know he also loves me dearly and expected the first year of us living together to be the hardest. I just feel like if we keep going the way we’re going that it will end up in the end of our relationship. Do you have any suggestions on how to get our relationship back on track?
Ronald
