Archive for the ‘Marriage & Divorce’ Category

Marriage Counseling?

Saturday, February 14th, 2009
kerri_lynn01 asked:


I feel like there is nothing left of my marriage. There seems to be so much distance. There is no intimacy (due to me not wanting any) no communication. Basically, he comes home from work and goes into the game room and plays playstation or poker all night. We have an 18 month old son. I asked him to go to couseling 8 months ago and he wouldn’t. Now that I talked to him about a seperation, he wants to try couseling.

Has couseling worked to save your marriage or is it too late?

Diane

Help! I don’t know what to do?

Sunday, November 16th, 2008
online poker rooms
busymom4_2003 asked:


My husband and I have been together for 6 1/2 years, married for 3yrs. We just celebrated our 3rd anniversary. He has a friend he plays poker with online. At first I didnt think much of it. But he started spending more time with her than he does with me and the kids. I tried to say something but he said I was being rediculous. Well, they decided to set up messenger so they could chat easier. I know how to read the message archive, he doesn’t. Last night I noticed he said he was going to give her his cell number and wanted her to call him at work. I’m not allowed to call him at work unless it’s an emergency. I read the archive today because of this. He asked for a pic of her, told her she was beautiful. He said if he had the money he’d be on a bus now. They said they couldn’t wait for the time they could meet in person. I’ve noticed they are making jokes about me and things like that. Obviously they’ve said more, but I don’t have room here to list it all. What do I do?
When I noticed last night that he was going to give her his number I said something to him. That was before I read the archive. She lives in a different state, but it’s the one we are from, so it’s not like he can’t find her. All he said was if I wasn’t reading his messages, I wouldn’t know. He said they were just friends. I asked how far does it go before it stops? Now that I’ve read their messages I think it is more than just friends. Anybody want to know more, I’ll send you the messages they wrote and you can tell me what you think. Our anniversary was Wendsday and the chat I read was from mostly this weekend.
Also, I am a stay at home mom with our 4 children, 3 mine, 1 together. He works and controls the finances. I have to ask just to buy something like ice cream. How am I supposed to go out and have fun on my own or leave him?

Travis

Men:If you had a wife that dressed up for you in the bedroom, would you choose poker over her?

Saturday, September 13th, 2008
online poker rooms
*Triple M*(Queen of the Ring) asked:


I do everything for my husband, I dressed up in a Nurse outfit, Dominatrix outfit, oriental outfit, I do what I know he desires. As of late, this other woman named “Lady Luck” has been getting in the way. My husband plays online every night, I sit with him for three to four hours a night which is three to four times a week. Last night was the second night in a row I was promised that we would watch a movie together, but of course, I guess lady luck looked sexier to him then I did. We went to bed at one in the morning. And finally I was in his arms, we cuddled and closed our eyes for about five minutes, and our two year old came running in and I asked my husband to put him back in his room and he refused. I needed that time with him because its so consumed by work and poker. These are things that I need, and I have tried to explain this to him. The other night we were having *** and our son started crying and my husband said “Let me hurry up and finish so we can bring him in here” That really hurt my feelings but I never said anything. I LOVE having *** with my husband, I would do it morning noon and night with him if time allowed. Am I over reacting about this whole poker thing? It’s every night. PLEASE someone help! Any replies are greatly appreciated!
oh about the other nights he is at work, i am not in anyway being selffish.

Jeanette